Guest Blog by Allison Mrasek

I remember the first time my brother, sister and I attended Chi Omega Convention in 2006 to watch our mom speak. We knew she was a big deal in the fraternal world, but had no idea what a sorority celebrity she is until we saw long lines of women waiting to get their picture with her. To us, she is an incredible lady, but also just a mother, mentor and friend.

As you can imagine, being Jean Mrasek's oldest daughter has involved some pressure at various points in time -- namely, during my formal recruitment. That summer, my mom had just finished her term as Chi Omega national president, so no one would have faulted her had she pushed me toward Chi Omega. Instead, she encouraged me to seriously consider each and every chapter NPC had to offer on our campus (of course, I did attend a university with a strong NPC presence). Through her true Panhellenic spirit and support no matter the outcome, the choice to be a sorority woman was always mine. This has made our bond all the more special, fulfilling the legacy started by my grandmother in Chi Omega.

When writing me notes, she likes to sign off as "Sister Mom." It is neat to know we are sisters first. I feel truly blessed to have this unique relationship with her. She has shown me and others what it means to be an advocate for women, and she tirelessly works to uphold the values so dear to Panhellenic. I often seek her counsel when faced with difficult decisions, as I know she is diplomatic in her approach to all things. Her wisdom also guides her to give me space when I need to make my own choices, as here lies the opportunity for true learning and personal growth.

Now working for Chi Omega, I have personally witnessed the power of Panhellenic that many women like my mom work so hard to grow. Leading a colony this fall, it has been the support of the local Panhellenic community that has made all the difference. The bonds that my "Sister Mom" shares with NPC and its allies continue to be a model in my life and career. It has been fun to interact professionally with some of the amazing Panhellenic women she calls friends. From my perspective, that is what Panhellenic is all about: celebrating friendships and common values among outstanding women.

I hope that you take this occasion to celebrate the sisters and the special relationships in your life. This is a meaningful day for my family, so if you see me amid a mess of tears, you'll know why.